tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34821333.post4957386855822156548..comments2023-08-06T05:23:02.470-07:00Comments on Confessions of a Laundry Faerie: Impulsive introversionSoozcathttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12549632685008663664noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34821333.post-31883457854398674872014-10-20T20:43:54.660-07:002014-10-20T20:43:54.660-07:00I found this post by googling "impulsive intr...I found this post by googling "impulsive introvert" because I wanted to see if it was a thing...and yes, it totally is a thing because it happens to you, too. I check ALL the boxes on the "are you an introvert" quizzes, AND I tell off strangers, let it ALL out, fight for convictions, display passion rather wildly, cannot let ANYthing go....and yes, experience all that remorse and second guessing afterwards.<br /><br />I definitely agree it's a match made in, ahem, not heaven (I don't swear, it's just not me).<br /><br />I deal with it by normally choosing to check the impulsivity at the door not necessarily because I want to but because I feel the rewards gained from it are generally less than the consequences....BUT I feel that it is partially because I AM that normally reasonable, predictably calm person that makes my outbursts actually less effective (can we say overanalyzing much?!) Instead of mas effective as I wish they would be. But there are times that I just. Have. To. Act. On the impulse....like tonight actually, I'm negotiating a business deal and let's just say that the title of my email included the word "ultimatum."<br /><br />And then I googled "impulsive introvert." Because I was like, if this isn't already a thing, I think I just discovered it (happy I didn't discover it though, I always worry about being too vain).<br /><br />Your post has encouraged me (not that I needed encouragment...*evil laughter*). So thank you. Also I will follow your blog if I can figure out how now that Google Reader is gone.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-34821333.post-86075021222697221282014-08-30T11:58:04.011-07:002014-08-30T11:58:04.011-07:00Hi!
Thank you for sharing this,
I've been expe...Hi!<br />Thank you for sharing this,<br />I've been experiencing the same way too. Glad to know that i'm not alone.<br />And I admire how much you think about others.<br /><br />If u don't mind, I want to share mine:<br />At first I've been very impulsive.<br /><br />Feeling too much comparing with common behavior, in recent years, I tried to ignore/reject every impulses to be more calm and cool. But as the result, there's no passion and energy. <br />Then i become sort of underachiever and have so many regrets about what I didn't do at the time.<br /><br />So, now I start to let myself to be impulsive again. However, now with the note to myself to ignore impulses that can distract me from my main goals/dreams. <br /><br />This not going well so far, up and down, lots of stressful situations and conversation within my head.<br />Still very far gap to catch up on my dreams.<br /> <br />But overall, now I can feel that at some points that I'm getting better. <br /><br />So my mission now is to have a clearer understanding about my self, dream, fear, strength, weakness, etc. <br /><br />So that I can filter better and be more sure about my moves, my choices, my decisions.<br /><br />Hopefully I can work this out :)<br /><br />NB: Sorry to write you this much..Furihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14972641904420449861noreply@blogger.com